Am I being too nice? (nice guy question.)?

No, niceness... there is never enough of it. Girls your age who 'only seem to want date guys who act y and ignore them', it's just 'first love' It's the idea of love. Girls like things that they can't get easily. Do you think girls like diamonds because it's 'pretty'? ESPECIALLY YOUNG FOOLISH girls? All girls are like that. It's expensive. And disgusting. When you're older, girls will be all over you. Who wants a cold diamond when there is a beautiful flower? You see, girls get smarter as they grow up. You are an ideal boy friend. Trust me. Just wait and you'll see. ;)